Elise Loehnen on On Our Best Behaviour: Reclaiming Wholeness Over “Goodness”
Why do so many women equate self-denial with being “good”? In this episode of The Innovation Show, Aidan McCullen speaks with Elise Loehnen, author of the New York Times bestseller On Our Best Behaviour. Together, they explore how cultural conditioning, the seven deadly sins, and patriarchal narratives have shaped…
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About This Episode
Why do so many women equate self-denial with being “good”? In this episode of The Innovation Show, Aidan McCullen speaks with Elise Loehnen, author of the New York Times bestseller On Our Best Behaviour. Together, they explore how cultural conditioning, the seven deadly sins, and patriarchal narratives have shaped women’s lives for centuries—and how reclaiming wholeness over “goodness” can free us all.
Who Is Elise Loehnen?
Elise Loehnen is a New York Times bestselling author, host of the Pulling the Thread podcast, and cultural critic. Her work focuses on questioning long-held social narratives and helping people reconnect with their authentic selves.
Key Themes We Discuss
- Why women equate self-denial with being “good”
- The hidden influence of the seven deadly sins
- Patriarchy’s cultural scripts across history
- The psychology of envy, pride, and sadness
- Reclaiming feminine energy in a masculine world
- Choosing wholeness over performative “goodness”
Why This Conversation Matters
This conversation goes beyond gender. It is about understanding the cultural programming that affects both women and men, and how reclaiming authenticity can transform leadership, relationships, and society.
Quotes from the Episode
“The good news for all of us is that the feminine does not enjoy suppression. She invariably rises.” – Elise Loehnen
“We are all programmed to perform roles that don’t belong to us. The freedom is in reclaiming our wholeness.” – Elise Loehnen
Resources & Links
- Elise Loehnen’s Website
- On Our Best Behaviour – Elise Loehnen
- Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness
- Pulling the Thread Podcast
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